Editor's November Issue Overview

Volume 4 Issue 09
Yes, It Gets Better!

We have all been incredibly disturbed by the recent wave of gay teen suicide. Some of these victims were so terrified of their future they saw no reason to continue their lives, and others were flat-out bullied into taking their own lives. Either way, they are all very sad stories. In the wake of this trend I am pleased to see so many people – gay and straight – standing up and letting their voices be heard. As out gay adults, the most important thing we can do is convey to our younger counterparts that, yes, it does get better.

As many of us have now or in our past had association with the sports world, we know that the coming out process for athletes is often delayed for years. (Most of the gay athletes we know and look up to, in fact, came out after their playing careers were over.) Homophobia is still accepted in the locker rooms, indicating that the progression of the sports world is moving slower than the rest of society. Young gay athletes need to hear messages from people like them. They need to hear that the world is not entirely doom and gloom, and that there is a better life awaiting them. More importantly, they need to be made aware that there are support networks and safe places for them should they choose to be out and continue their sports careers.

0409-ed-letter-brian-sims I am so pleased that we are able to bring a few of these stories to readers in this issue of Compete. These athletes are standing as examples of how change is happening. Along with other brave activists, they are among a large group of people working to remove homophobia from college athletic departments. For example, former college football player Brian Sims (at right) makes an impact on young people by visiting colleges and talking about gay issues in the athletic departments.

Beyond college there are countless opportunities for gay athletes to get their sport on. Last month I had the pleasure of witnessing some incredible football players play for the 10th annual Gay Bowl trophy. But what struck me even more than the impressive display of athletic skill was the fact that these men (and the few women) are incredible and timely role models for young people struggling with their sexual orientation. By showing that it is possible to be out and proud, and play a tough “manly” sport like football, these hundreds of players – and other gay athletes like them across the country – are providing an example to anyone who doesn’t think there is a bright future.

And if you think there aren’t gay athletes in every sport, read about gay racecar driver Evan Darling’s work with The Trevor Project and his message to gay teens. If there’s a sport, no matter how rough or dangerous, the gays will be there!

I’m proud that Compete can be a part of this movement that encourages teens to look to the future. By showing positive examples of gay athletes – which is what our magazine has been about since Day 1 – we hope we are making a difference in the lives of many. Young gay people have so much to look forward to; let’s all make sure they know that.

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